Dating my ex boyfriend again
Are you dating a guy who seems to have a rather soft spot for his ex? If you’ve been in a passionate relationship that had to end, you’d know how hard it is to get over a special someone.
If you’re troubled by the quicksand of sappy emotions your man has for his ex flame, you’re not alone. Really now, if he’s still in love with his ex, what the heck is he doing with you? While it’s not easy to forget someone you once loved, there’s a thin line between forgetting someone and staying in love with them.
Even worse, those dirty psychological tricks turn off your ex boyfriend.
This means you have even more work to do if you want him back.
[Read: How to tell if he’s serious about you] After all, the start of a relationship is all about infatuation and lust.
If he says he loves you, yet gets flustered when he sees his ex or spends all the time thinking of his ex, can he ever love you when all he does is dream of her?
I literally woke up in a sweat and was hyperventilating because my brain was freaking out. Then he appeared out of nowhere to ask me to get back together by proposing to me. Fortunately, my guy didn’t wake up to notice me having a near panic attack. Logically, I know this dream was just a creation of my subconscious.
Are you just a rebound or are you someone he truly loves?When I work with guys, I put it to them like this: There is no such thing as her “just knowing” how you feel or that it “should be obvious”.Truth be told, this isn’t a guy problem, it’s a human problem – it can be easy to assume that the other person knows how we feel… So what ends up happening is the guy feels like it’s obvious that you know he loves you. or that she should know already and that it would feel forced or fake if they said something that they felt was obvious.After all, most breakup websites out there are telling you to ignore your ex boyfriend during no contact, pretend to be happy, go to the gym, post photo of you with another guy to make him jealous, send him a magic letter and so on… I am doing so because I don’t want you to take shortcut and focus on the wrong things. More importantly, I want to stop you from using tactics that will cause serious damage to your relationship.I believe you have probably seen them before you landed on my website. For example, you may have seen some ebooks that claim you can get your ex back in 14 days or less using some secret psychological tactics that work on a man so that he will be down on his knees, crawling towards you and begging you to take him back.(I am going to dispel this “14 days or any number of days” myth later.)You decided to buy that ebook only to realize that it doesn’t work.